“Tom Selleck Reveals Why He Took His Time Before Writing His Memoir”
BLUE BLOODS star Tom Selleck’s new memoir, You Never Know, delves into his life and offers advice for aspiring actors. Initially, Selleck was uncertain about writing a memoir.
“I hesitated for a long time because my life hasn’t been marked by dramatic upheavals or career reinventions,” he shared with Country Living. “I thought, ‘What’s there for me to write about?’”
Determined not to pen a sensational or political expose, Selleck took time to ponder his approach. With encouragement from his publicist, a close friend, he dedicated four years to the project. Preferring traditional methods, he wrote the memoir by hand on a yellow pad, avoiding digital tools. “I’ve always written this way and can’t seem to think well in front of a keyboard,” he told Town and Country.
As Selleck immersed himself in the writing process, his initial doubts gave way to a clearer vision. He drew from his wealth of experiences and stories, making the task more manageable.
“I found my way into the project by focusing on what I wanted to share,” he said. “I committed to being open about my personal emotions and my work.”
Released earlier this month, You Never Know offers readers an inside look at Selleck’s relationships with notable figures like Frank Sinatra, Carol Burnett, and Sam Elliott. He pays homage to his mentor, James Garner, and explores the American western genre that has significantly influenced his career. Fans of Magnum P.I. will be intrigued by Selleck’s reflections on making Thomas Magnum a more nuanced character and his decision to leave a successful show.
The memoir also provides an intimate look at Selleck’s personal life, detailing his efforts to balance a demanding career with family life. Throughout, he candidly discusses the challenges of maintaining his family’s privacy while pursuing his acting career.